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Many parents use rewards systems to help kids reach behavioural milestones. Rewards charts are positive reinforcement of good behaviour. Stressing positive behaviour helps build self-esteem and encourages children to repeat the rewarded behaviour.

How reward systems work
Rather than dwelling on the negative aspects of a child’s behaviour, a reward system will give points for him achieving certain of his parents’ expectations, for example getting dressed in time,
remembering to brush teeth, etc. The system can also be used for rewarding chores that need to
be done around the house. Obviously all expectations need to be reasonable so customise it based on your child’s age, personality, and interests. Here’s how to set up a reward system that works for your kids.

Toddlers and preschoolers
For little kids, consider using a sticker reward chart. The instructions are simple: Put one sticker on the chart each time your child accomplishes a goal. (For example, they earn one sticker each time they get dressed by themselves, and after 10 stickers, they earn a small toy or new book.) You don’t only need to work with stickers. Reward charts can take many forms: coins in a jar, magnets on the fridge, etc. Anything that’ll motivate your child. But remember that most little ones need to
see how they are doing in a simple, visual and understandable way. Printable reward charts are readily available online, ready made charts are available from various stationers, and you can also make your own DIY version.

Some tips
Reward them immediately
To eliminate confusion, you should give the visual reward immediately after the desired behaviour happens.

One at a time
When starting a reward system, only track and reward one behaviour at a time. Start with one and and then add the goals slowly.

Praise! Praise! Praise!
Little ones love pleasing their parents, so remember to praise them when they accomplish a goal. They’ll be encouraged to keep up the good work. Also, remind them about the reward chart often: “Remember if you go potty on the toilet, you’ll get a sticker!”

Reward systems for school-aged kids
For school-aged kids, a reward system usually deals with points instead of stickers. Then when they have reached a certain number of points they can get a reward. For example, kids can trade in a certain number of points for specific rewards, such as:
– A trip to their favourite play place
– A later bedtime
– An extra half hour of video games
– Small amounts of money

 Some tips for older kids
Track multiple behaviours
You can implement more items in the reward chart as your kids get older. For example, your child might earn points for making their bed, controlling their anger, helping with laundry, walking the dog, and being nice to siblings.

Consider removing points
You can also remove points for misbehaviour as long as you clearly explain the reasoning to your child and remind them how they can earn points back.

Ask your kids for input
Talk to your child to brainstorm reasonable rewards that will motivate them. For example, they might not care about getting a new book if they already have shelves full of unread ones—but maybe they’re longing for a family bike ride to the new ice cream shop!

Be consistent
Reward charts clearly state your expectations, but they only work as long as you keep at it. Even simple star charts require a lot of energy, effort, and time. You need to be on top of your kids and
monitor what they’re doing and how they’re doing it. All the best!

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